Is metamorphosis possible?
The law of the land: very few younger guys are looking for older bottoms. And for the twink tribe, even more of those are bottoms to begin with. What so frustrating, is that many of those bottoms are so cute.
But nothing is written in stone, is it? Would it be totally impossible for a younger bottom to do the journey to become a top, or at least a versatile guy, if he was in a relationship with a guy he really liked? Maybe the boy of my dreams is out there, but initially a bottom. If I encountered mutual attraction with someone who was bottom only, I would eventually succumb to the desire for dick, and that wouldn’t work as a long term solution.
Sometimes, I can get tempted to pretend that I’m top, just to go on a date with a beautiful boy, even if he is bottom. But that would be dishonest. And those few times I actually did that, I felt miserable and unsatisfied afterwards, so that approach is not leading anywhere.
So, my question to you: has anyone made the journey, of going from a younger bottom to a younger top, if they were in a relationship or dating someone? Stories from both sides are appreciated.
Posted May 12, 2026, 2:48 PM UTC