ISO all-inclusive destination wedding venue

I am looking to plan a wedding at an all-inclusive resort. My guest list would be between 50-100 people. Budget is 50k. I want guest experience to be number one priority. I am a huge foodie so would like a resort that has FANTASTIC food! My guest list would include my grandfather, who is a spry 80 yr old who still works daily and lives in a two level home, but I would want a resort that is able to accommodate some mobility issues. I am 99% certain it would be a kid-free wedding but am open to resorts that allow children. I want my wedding, and my guest's vacation, to feel like a luxury experience. I want guests to value their vacation. I would also like a resort that is large enough that each family/couple/friend group can do their own thing for a night without feeling like they have to do something with the big group! I value white beaches and blue water. I would be open to being married on the beach, but am looking more for resorts that have venues without sand that have the beach or water in the background. It is important to me that if I do have a beach wedding, there are not a ton of random beach goers in the background of photos. Most of our guests will be traveling from DTW, so I am looking for a resort that has direct or minimal layover flights from DTW. I would also prefer a shorter flight (max 8 hours) for my older guests. My fiancé and I JUST got engaged at excellence Riviera Cancun (last week) and that was both of our first all-inclusive resort experiences (we had a phenomenal experience, the service was top-notch, food was good, and we never had to search for a spot to chill at the pools or beach)! We want our wedding to be intimate, romantic, and awe-inspiring. We would like to have a fun wedding, but neither of us are big partiers, so would be looking for a resort that values relaxation over partying! TLDR; what all-inclusive resort would you choose for a destination wedding that guests will be talking about in ten years?