Hypocrisy of A and Y

If A met Y couple of times behind Ruru's back, it shows the character of Y first of all, what kind of person he is and when things get rough, kahi bhi mu maarne chala jata hai. What I don't understand about A is that you are so hungry of Y ki validation that a man who chose R over you on national television, you were okay with hanging out with him? You were okay with being the second fiddle? She wanted to be accepted by Y so bad ki chupke chupke mil rai thi? As a second woman in Y's life? Like babe you're pretty, you're also successful, self respect bhi aa jati to kya baat thi? I think she wanted to prove a point that Y also likes me and chose me over R later on but what she doesn't understand is that babe you're just the second fiddle in the show and also out of the show. Like please get out of this bs, find a man who can accept you fully without making you the second woman and Yogesh, I hope you find a partner like yourself and I hope you get treated the way Ruru was treated.