26M - Sharing a experience

So i am 26 M and do not do drinking and smoking . Have a technical and masters degree in finance. By nature i am introvert . Decent looks and harworking and never been with some one and only waiting for one. But nowadays i feel like there is not much for our kind of introvert guys as there is family pressure to marry and also i feel like to be settled and not to mention i have business but its very hard to find equal level other half. Now i feel like if i hadnt been introvert by nature . Our kind of guys can also easily find someone but our problem is that we tend to follow a rulebook and when all ticks are there then only we proceed . We as introvert dont want to waste our time and want to find only one. Not to mention if you have a bad habit or a little bemd nature you will find someone easily . So what is you all take . Is my assumption wrong or out of touch in real world.