DID without the disorder??

hello! I wanted to make this post for help. I have the "mechanics" of a fragmented identity (the switching, the memory barriers, and the distinct parts) but I function well.
I got banned from the DID community because “in clinical terms, DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) requires "significant distress or impairment."
I asked around and some people said I have Non-Disordered Plurality or Functional Dissociation.

I already have AuDHD and I managed to make my life around it (like never forcing me to do thing as a specific time and ONLY doing thinks the movement I feel like it. Whenever I do it, my hyper focused side helps me do WEEKS of work in just a day or two. I don’t feel burnout thanks to that. I also stopped trying to fit it and that helped clam my nervous system down. Basically reparenting myself and telling myself that it’s ok, if I don’t feel like it then we won’t do it. LOTS OF POSITIVE SELF TALK and I never allow people to talk shit about me. I have never felt so happy.

Also I was born in a shitty house with a narcissist abusive mother and an emotionally absent father. Did a lot of shadow work therapy and I have came to a point where I can’t deal with feeling “helpless”?? As my mother ALWAYS acted like the victim and my father was ALWAYS negative so I hated those things so much to a point if someone says shit about their life and blames things without never solving them, it hurts my head and I just block them. I can’t tolerate this stuff. (I understand lot of people reading that might have the victim mentality too and there is nothing wrong with it. But I personally can’t operate with that mindset and feel like I am suffocating.)

Every time something happens that would normally cause "distress," my brain immediately switches into a "Logic/Winner" front that processes the event as "Data” instead of "Trauma." It’s weird but it’s just “ok this sucks, how do I fix it?”
Thats why I have a hard time with emotional people as I focus on solutions and they just want to vent.

Also finance major here with 20 totally different side hobbies. So yep.

Also continuing with mentioning my symptoms as I already got banned in DID because people thought I was making stuff up:

I have distinct "fronts" or versions of myself. One is highly logical/numb, while others are deeply emotional. They have different tastes, attachment styles, and even different connections. For example usually I am super detached and numb but then suddenly I cry non stop uncontrollably due to suddenly feeling different? Here I feel super attached to things and have delusions where I believe some entity is real. I also have significant "grey-out" amnesia. I struggle to recall emotions or specific details from one state when I am in another. It’s like my memories are partitioned.
There were times where this did caused significant distress like looking myself in the mirror and 100% believing that isn’t me and it freaking me out. To screaming and shouting at different parts of me.

There are also frequent periods where I totally dissociate and feel like everything around me is not real. Like I am in some stimulation. It’s weird to explain it but it’s like a sudden perspective shift where things suddenly look big or small, like I am seeing them for the first time. And almost always I am in awe. And on the same period my movements become semi autonomous.