Should i propose
I’m a 21 year old guy and I am at a crossroads right now. I have been best friends with this girl for a long time but our relationship has been haram and I am honestly tired of it being that way. I want to do things the right way. We recently had a massive fight and she told me to just leave her alone and even said I should start hating her.
I am currently a 4th year computer science student so I am still finishing my masters degree. The big thing is that my family has an empty house that is completely ready for us to live in and my parents are totally on board with supporting me and the marriage. I do not have a car yet and I am obviously still a student but the housing situation is already sorted which we all know is usually the hardest part in Algeria.
I want to send her one last message to confess that I want to make things halal and marry her instead of just being in this confusing cycle. Is it too soon since I am still a student and do not have a car or does having a house and a solid career path( ive worked on so many freelance projects ) make it worth the shot. Especially considering we are not even talking right now after the fight. I really need some honest perspective on whether I should go for it or if I am just being delusional. What do you guys think.
Posted May 12, 2026, 2:54 PM UTC