33 [M4F] #GA/online- married but am nowhere near satisfied and am looking for more

I love my wife and she’s amazing in most areas. I’m beginning to think I may have a nympho problem within me. I can’t be satiated. I could have sex or at minimum do sexual activities 2-3 times a day. I’m lucky if I get vanilla sex that many times in a month. I love controlling, I love rough, deepthroat, eating, BDSM, lots of different things. I love the idea of freeuse as well but she’d never consider that. I’m looking to find a woman (married even better cause they understand) that feels similar and would want an ongoing thing here to help each other work through some of our darker desires with each other that our partner would never be able to satisfy. I want a long term partner not looking for just a sexting buddy or a one time fling or brief encounter. I want to be able to build a connection. I’m a country southern man who’s very tall and built solid as a brick house