41m, first time strapons

So basically I’ve let my wife use a toy on me, it was fun but the issue is with all the lube we decided to try a strap on, we bought a fairly cheap one and didn’t realize it’s hollow so we could barely get it started, so I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for a good quality strap on that isn’t stupid in price, also would prefer one that looks like a real cock, new to this so smaller size would be ideal lol possibly even one that gives her a little pleasure as well