Help.

Dating for 1 year. Married for 1 year. Left home to stay in my husband’s hometown because of work. Husband owns a firm, while I can work anywhere (doctor). However, more than a yr of living in his hometown, the place still did not feel like home. In addition, in laws live 20-30 minutes drive from our place but their business is beside my husband’s firm so they see each other almost everyday. They also message/call my husband almost everyday asking him to do some of their house work (husband has a younger sister living with them, but idk why they wont let her do the errand). They also insist that i should go to their home weekly. However, my work hours is usually more than 24hrs, upon going home im dead tired. Husband understands that but in laws told husband that i dont probably like them and the like. Im just an introvert with an extrovert work, so I dont have the energy to socialize anymore. Told my husband if we could go back to my hometown but he did not accept the idea of relocating. He also told me to effort more in socializing with his family.

I dont know. Im just tired.

Posted May 12, 2026, 3:01 PM UTC

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