As a 25M fresher, I didn’t expect corporate life to feel this sexually charged

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Hey guys, this is something that’s been on my mind for quite some time. I’m a 25-year-old male working in a reputed IT company as a fresher. Most people in my team are in their early to late 30s.

As I started talking with them and built a good rapport, many of them began sharing personal things with me. Some admitted they were having affairs even though they’re married, and what surprised me even more is that the people they’re involved with are usually around their own age.

It doesn’t stop there. Some of my colleagues openly show interest in other coworkers and even hint that they’re ready for casual or sexual relationships — again, mostly with people in the same age group.

What confuses me is this: girls around my age don’t seem interested in these kinds of things, and even when they are, they often prefer older guys. At the same time, older women also seem more interested in older men.

So where does that leave younger guys like me? Is this something happening only in my company and neighborhood, or is this common everywhere? Any thoughts?

Posted May 13, 2026, 6:22 PM UTC

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