I want to date women seriously but idk where to start

28 F and I’m finally no longer scared to want to be with other women. When I was curious I thought it was just sexual interest, but after having my first female crush that unfortunately didn’t go well because it was hard for me to come to the realization that i actually liked and wanted a relationship with her.

Since then I realized idk who I end up with gender wise as long as they love and treat me right.

I’m currently on Tinder and Her though looking for other women to date seriously, but I’m having a hard time putting myself out there (not seeing my type and I don’t go out).

Any advice on how to put yourself out there as I guess a late bloomer bisexual and being taken seriously when dating women?