Just met someone older than me, and there is already some kind of chemistry. Need your advice

Just met someone older than me online and there is already some kind of chemistry. Need your input

I (32m) just met someone (46f) online and we instantly started talking over the phone. She lives in another country, is freshly divorced and has two children.

The thing is that I was just the therapist kind of person she was talking with, and we almost talk everyday for over two weeks now. Sometimes staying over two hours on the phone.

I knew there would be some kind of attraction since we are very similar from the inside, it feels like we are connected to the same frequency. I personally love who she is. And she does so.

Now she kind of started to think about visiting me in my space... Like, just getting to connect with me in real life, having endless talks around fire and night stars...

That seems wonderful, but I'm also aware that would create a strong bond and will leave an empty space within both of us where she will leave.

I personally just rejected someone I knew for over 10 years, she was nice, beautiful, but super egoistic in many senses and that's the opposite of who I'm. And so after noticing some bitchy changes I decided to withdraw and go no contact.

Has anyone went through something similar?

We both say that it's a good idea to remain those two connected souls that are not attached to each others, so that we also keep that part of us that feels safe and completely free to be fully authentic around each others. We feel like moving to something else might just break this beautiful part of our relationship.

Also I'm kind of trying to find a good solution to her situation since she is going through a lot.

I'm a little bit lost even if I have nothing to lose meeting her, spending time together or even traveling but I'm not sure about long term. I would imagine we can even live together if she did not have children.

Also I'm aware that she is going through a phase I would call "in between", and for women, during that phase they can easily be attracted to a man since they are also looking to fulfill their desire.

Do you guys have any advice for me?