Unbecoming
Hi all,
l've written a short book called Unbecoming: A mirror, not a method. It's a series of vignettes of everyday characters acting out the patterns of becoming.
The intention of the book was to encourage one to turn in on oneself to look at their own patterns of thought, instead of using their patterns of thought to look.
The collapse of the observer is one of the most core elements of non-dual teachings. It's invisible while it's operating, which is why I designed the entire book as the observer acting out, to expose its patterns, as opposed to offering another method or a path which can so easily be hijacked by the observer.
It's available on Amazon in paperback and kindle:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Unbecoming-Mirror-Method-Sam-Arden/dp/B0GWJ6SX28
Much love,
x
Posted May 13, 2026, 6:29 PM UTC