pls help a top

This is not my account. I asked a friend to post it on reddit for me. Thanks friendo. So I've topped three times only. This one from today had been the third. I usually take long to cum. I've cummed only a few times during sex so far. I don't feel much physical pleasure, altrough I do feel very horny at times. People I've fucked weren't actually my type, but I find myself able to masturbate to thing's I'm 100% not attracted to (like woman) very often, so I don't think that's the problem. Also, I tried to fap during it, but couldn't cum regardless. I masturbate once or twice a week, so I also think that's not the problem. I think I could actually last 8 hours if I wanted to and bottom would love, but wtf I want to enjoy it too. Any suggestions? Also I could actually feel his prostate while fingering. How tf do I aim for it using my dick?