Infertility issues?

My wife (47 F) and I (29 FTM) are trying to have a baby. Because of my wife’s age, I’m the one trying to carry. I’ve been off of T for a year and we’re trying to conceive. This is a long, heart breaking process and I guess I’m just looking to see if anyone else has faced infertility issues. We decided to start fertility drugs to help, but we haven’t seen any success. I want to see if there was anything that anyone else had to suggest that we could do. Or if anyone else has dealt with this.

And in case anyone wants to hate us for making this decision instead of it being an accident, this is our only option. We are not candidates for adoption because of the son she has from a previous relationship and his violent history. He’s better now, but that eliminates that option for us. This is the only option we have left and I’m so sick of getting hate for just wanting to start a family.

Sorry for my rant. If y’all have any ideas that can help, or just want to send some support my way, I’d really appreciate it.