F4M pakistani
Hi, contrary to the flair, it means I’m Pakistani, but don’t really live back there natively.
What I’m looking for: you must be 18-20, anything above that is a total no. That’s a non negotiable. If you hop in my DMS being above that age, you are getting blocked.
I’m also not necessarily looking for just other Pakistani natives. I find that I don’t really relate to a lot of them. Any ethnicity feel free to hit me up. This is a general ex Muslims sub.
The traits I value in a man:
Liberal, open minded, but still expressively masculine in a sense. Like, it’s not like I expect you to be some soulless provider, I’m just looking for a young man to essentially be like bestfriends with, I just enjoy relationship polarity, like a masculine/feminine type. I don’t want a conservative man that just follows an old social script given to him, and didnt choose to understand the full nuance between choosing a cute polarity dynamic and an overaching oppressive type structure, which isn’t what I want. I just want a bestfriend who matches my energy in a ying yang way.
Another thing, I require a caring heart, with depth. I feel like I have emotional depth myself, so I just think I atleast want my partner to understand me and see me. I’ll do the same back, I love taking care of people :)
Do not message me if you’re in a rush to fake closeness either, I enjoy taking things at their own natural pace. I hope this post reaches the right people. Don’t judge a book by its cover anyways.
Posted May 13, 2026, 7:53 PM UTC