34 [M4F] #Wisconsin #USA | Let me objectify and corrupt you

Hi!

I am 34m from Milwaukee Wisconsin and I am looking to meet someone special so we can start a committed and loving relationship as partners but also explore our kinky sides together. My hope is that I can find someone to dive deep with and build a kinky relationship and Ds dynamic based on mutual respect and trust but also enjoying each other's company outside of the kinky space as long term and honestly hopefully forever partners. I have done the work in therapy and through life experience to definitely say that kink is an element to a relationship that I cannot do without and so having someone to explore that space together would be amazing. Also, I am down to share sfw photos pretty early on as well as I believe mutual physical attraction is important alongside the personality/metal side of things. **I have started writing a 5 year plan that at this point is solely fantasy because in order for it to happen, you need to message me :). This 5 year plan details both my vanilla and kinky goals in the relationship and I think it would be really special to have someone to plan it together with!**

**A bit about me:**

34 years old

I have dark brown/black hair and light blue eyes - it's a good combo

I am 6'4" and pretty average/athletic in build but I have been putting in work at the gym. I currently lift 3 or 4 days a week as well as cycle and rucking.

I am progressive .Idk if I would say I subscribe to party lines but I lean left, am a union member working in education (shhh don't snitch), and support social justice and equity in society across the board. Lol that said a lot of my kinks revolve around the opppsite of these things... My therapist told me it's a way of mocking the absurd structures in which society organizes itself while also maybe enjoying it a little (more below).

I am also 420 friendly and enjoy a good mushroom or lsd trip when I am off during the summer.

As for kink, I am mostly a soft, nurturing Daddy Dom but I have some sub in me so I am switchy 80/20 ratio.

**As for my interests and hobbies:**

I love learning and staying curious about the world. I love a good bike ride (beer garden hopefully included on the ride), if I were independently wealthy with FU money I would probably go back to school and get degrees for the rest of my life, I enjoy art/culture/cuisine and love a good concert or festival. I love edm music especially so if you like wearing all the cute rave girl costumes, we'd be a good fit :) I also have my own small turntable deck that I mess around with every now and again.

**You've made it this far... Are you ready for the kinks?!**

Corruption, bimbofication, sluttification, hypnosis play: I had a pretty prude girlfriend in high school and into college and that's where I discovered all of this. I wished I could erase her, hypnotize her and make her sluttier and that's how I found bimbofication on tumblr and I have been into it since then but really making an effort to find a partner in the last few years, especially since covid,

* 1950s lifestyle. This is where my progressive worldview likes to have fun and dial this nostalgia up a lot.

* free use

* cnc, kidnap, r\*pe, bondage

* anal training and play

* misogyny

* dirty talk

* worship of Dom, praise

* orgasm denial

exhibitionism:

* outfit control

* public vibrator play

* **\*\*I should also mention clearly that I am very curious about filming/camming with my sub. Anonymity would be paramount for me and obviously your choice for you. Definitely on Fet to start but maybe one day on OF. Not a set in stone kink but would like to explore one day!\*\***

* lingerie, collars - especially collars to mark milestones and anniversaries in the relationship

* total power exchange aka tpe

You:

* Please be 18-35. Please be looking for a serious relationship, ideally with marriage and family in mind in addition to the bdsm elements.

* Please be in decent shape / attractive - I don't mean to sound shallow but I think mutual attraction is important.

* And please be ready to share pics pretty early on. I am not here to find pen pals.

* You're looking to move-in in the near future

* Please have good values and a good head on your shoulders, a decent human being with good energy who is looking for a serious partner whose tastes are just a little bit unconventional like mine are.

If you feel like you're a good fit, show me read the post by saying boo! to start... Pics are in my profile but I'm happy to exchange sooner rather than later to make sure we're attracted to each other. Talk soon, cheers!