Christian men an women who doesn't want child, what makes you decide so?

I am 21M, christian, and I decided some months ago that I don't want to have children.

It decided so because of a something that happened.

1- Since last year in dec 2025, I am the one who usually watch over my aunt kid (he is a 1 year old boy), and I found out watch over children is so exausthing that I don't want to do that again.

2- Beside of that the warm feeling that people feel

when they see a children I don't feel that at all.

3- I am someone who like being free and focus on my career and study, having child will pretty much take almost all my time, so I would be complicated.

And you what make you decide so?

For people who are asking if it's a sin not to want child, the answer is no and you do not owe a child to anyone.

You are not weird, you're just different.