The hyper negativity towards Malika is weird.

I agree she needs to work on herself. She is extremely particular and it results in her acting controlling.

But lets be honest, Krys absolutely did not communicate that and also fed into it a lot of the time. Some people are more controlling then others I the sense that they like things to be a particular way or done a particular way. Obviously I think Malika takes it overboard. And I am not saying it is healthy.

But Krys was an absolute AH. From the *start*, he would tell the cameras about how she's not affectionate enough or she's this or that. And then just... would not tell her what he needed. Then, at one point, asked if she felt anything changed or something since the pods (on their honeymoon) and when she said she didn't, he just did not take any opportunity to actually have that conversation about how he felt.

How is Malika supposed to know he is unhappy when he does not say so?

And then, obviously Krys and his whole cheating debacle, lying about how far it went and still failing to really communicate anything to her. Sorry. Women don't read minds. She has issues, sure. But honestly no one deserves what Krys did to her. And some of the stuff she does gets inflated because people already see her as controlling when, lets be honest, everyone in a relationship has those days where you kind of overreact to something your partner doesn't do perfectly. Even when you aren't doing it perfectly. Its human.

Do I think she deserves some criticism? Yeah. Do I think it is really strange how I've seen more people talk about that even after the other episodes came out? Yeah. I would rather take my chances dating Malika since I would communicate with her about her behavior in a healthy way, than get cheated on by a coward who lies about how far it went and will express his grievances about me to everyone but me. No thanks.

And also, Kamil trying to talk to her at the bar after Krys literally cheated on her and lied was weird. "It takes two to tango" and all that about how she can't keep holding on to what happened. It hadn't been that long. I was happy when she was like "I have the right to do that". No matter what, once a partner cheats, there is no timeline for getting over it. And given that situation, it feels inappropriate for his friend to get involved. I get that Krys is a coward and needs someone to communicate for him, but that is not Kamils place.

And when Krys just kept smiling at the bar? Idk. I thought it was weird. Like it was a joke or something to him. And for how controlling Malika is, she was a better person than me in that bar. Having someone tell you to let go of what happened and then also finding out the infidelity was worse than you were told? I don't think I'd be able to stay put together.