He is right or i am the problem?

I m 22 (F) and he is 24 (M) we met on a hinge in November 2025 and we started talking at that time he was in abroad and i m in india in 15 days he told me he loves me i was not that much convinced about that he told ki take whatever amount of time u want i just want u and i will wait i already told him in the starting that for me to fall in love it requires some period of time but when i do its like all in never give up on that and he told he dont mind but we continue talking in long distance he came india in january before that he kept asking why u wont give commitment n all and i wanted to meet first in person

So in january when he came back india we met and from whenever he came to india to till date he never had enough time like not even 15 minutes proper after a Period he told me you want to give committement or not then why are we even talking n all we just met once and in that meeting he also brought hiss bestfriend and cousin all boys i havent met him also before that i met his friend n cousin

So quite period of time we went on and off on n off very often mostly i left only bcz i needed tome fpr commitment wanted to meet again he wanted commitment first and we kept fighting i tell him to just give updates and take out half hour for us just u and me to talk and his action words mostly dont match so i told him about that and he thinks i kept complaining everytime so he dont talk and went to sleep he like sit with his family daily 9 to 12 doesn't even reply in between and after that when he text he barely talk 10 mins and say he is sleepy he needs to wake up early and i wait all day to get this so i everyday i got frustrated on this bcz in morning he is busy everyone around and he also call like when he is driving bike whivh is also surrounded by noise he avoid texting and he kept putting the call on hold kept meeting people in between on the way so even if I talk about wanting time he started getting offended i give you all the updates and everything so what now

Recently i told him no i dont want to continue bcz he initiated sexting for the first time and asked directly nudes and i already told him in the beginning i wont share such things he also agreed he saud i wil never ask for one and when he didn't get the response he wanted on sexting he said bye and i strecth the convo why he suddenly behaving like this i m also trying like so again fight started and on the next day he was going on trip his female bestfriend and 3 male friend and they slept in a same room he is saying nothing happened between them and also in return she was sleeping on his lap in car also last sunday he went for his Bestfriend first project completion party but in that party they went bowling movie dinner everything and he didnt gave me any update also avoiding calls and lash out on me when i kept doing it then we had a huge fight he said now he wants time to think whether he wants to continue or not