38 [M4F] Monogomy, what is it good for? #Sacramento

Seriously, was monogamy just an unnatural construct designed to keep marriages together, but is now outdated and causing more cheating than ever before. It feels like it currently leads to more broken marriages then if it didn't exist. I mean let's be honest and address the elephant in the room here, if we remove all social structures then our nature is to sleep with as many people as possible to advance our species and ensure we do not go instinct.

With all of that said, why am I posting on Sac Gone Wild? Well it's because I can't be the only one that wrestles with being unsatisfied with monogamy, but have a spouse that is not interested in exploring sexual relationships beyond marriage.

Let me just say now, I'm a straight man, and I did not post this to solicit conversation with other married men not getting fucked by their wives at home. Let me be clear, my wife and I have lots of sex, and if I'm being honest it continues to get better as we have gotten older.

Yet I still selfishly crave something that my wife cannot provide. That fresh connection, the jitters, and the buzz of experiencing fresh chemistry and a new sexual encounter. I miss it all, and I bet that there are a lot of women that feel the same way. Maybe you have a husband, maybe just a bf. You're happy in your relationship, but you feel like you are missing something and probably even feel bad about those feelings if you have explored them.

Well here is the shot in the dark. Let's talk about it, let's talk about those desires that we suppress to keep our relationship and our partners secure. Let's explore those taboo cravings and why we are considering risking what we have currently to fill those desires.

About me:

38 MWM

5'9 with a bit of a dad bod, gym fit and fluffy in the middle

Perfect Hubby cock I have been told (if that matters)

Love sports, movies, music, cooking and weekends around a fire with a nice buzz.

Not looking to meet necessarily (would love to chat with someone that is local if possible, just in case). But I'm just exploring my feelings, and looking for a like-minded female counterpart. Let's have a conversation and see if we can find that jitter that helps break up the 9-5 grind.