Stop Dooming/Black Pilling

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I've seen a lot of people in this subreddit say, "Muslim women nowadays are the worst!" or other variants of this sentiment. I frankly hate it. It makes "traditional" Islam sound like a synonym for "incel" Islam. Let's be frank: A lot of Muslim men, too, are terrible with their deen.

And we shouldn't judge how "good" a Muslim is by their sins. The Prophet (pbuh) said that the best of Muslims aren't those who do not sin, but those who sin and come to Allah and repent. In other words, it doesn't matter if this Muslim does this sin a lot. You should encourage them to be better, but you shouldn't think that they're worse Muslims immediately. You will never see what they do behind the closed doors. The istaghfar after fajr that wiped away more sins than yours in three months. This is more of a side tangent though, so I'll get back to my main point now.

Muslim men and women in this day and age are more immoral than ever - yeah, I get it. We all do. The propagated modern secular liberal ideals have rotted all morals and values and have caused sin to be abundant (exaggeration, but still mostly true). But, why focus on the bad when we can focus on better things? Why say, "Muslims are immoral nowadays," and not, "I fasted every day of Ramadan?"

This post probably won't get many views and that's fine. The few who do read this should know this: Most of Social Media is ultimately a waste of time, so build your hereafter instead of getting pulled into this bog of misery. Choose to be happy.

جزاكم الله خيرا

Posted May 24, 2026, 12:08 AM UTC

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