People in 30s , who have never been in a relationship — are we at a disadvantage for arranged/marriage?

31 year old living in tier 3 city, working remotely in Indian IT.

Going through arranged marriage process for past 3 years, but getting rejected after talking for sometime without any feedback/false excuses. It’s hitting my confidence.

Feels like I missed out on the whole “learning relationships in your 20s” phase — breakups, understanding emotions, etc. I feel like I’m starting from zero.

Do women see this as a red flag? What to do to improve myself?

Would appreciate honest opinions