does anybody else hate when extroverted/normie men fetishize neurodivergent women?

i've seen soo many extroverted, "popular" men say bs like i want an asocial girl with no friends!! i want autistic women with no experience!! like they just fetishize us bc we're deeemed as "pure" and innocent", i'd say it's also rooted in infantilization. i hate it sm cuz social anxiety genuinely ruined my life and they romanticize it and just keep feeding into it and make (certain) women not want to try to change it and better their lives, fuck off i would never date a normie like u omg. i can understand if the guy is also neurodivergent/asocial/wtv, they just maybe want a partner with similar characteristics but normie men saying this pisses me of sm and i've experienced it myself so many times.