I don’t want to do another long distance relationship
I’ve been talking to this boy for almost a year…we met on a dating app but at the time we first started to talk he was abroad in another country. I fell for him so badly and I was so excited for him to go to the states because he told me he would be going to a college close to mine. I looked forward to having an actual physical relationship. Now he revealed that he will go to another college in a different state. I really do like him but I can’t do another long distance relationship. I was in a long distance relationship all of high-school. Long distance left me unsatisfied and unhappy. I promised myself that I would never do another long distance relationship..the main reason why I talked with him is because I thought we would be close to each other if I knew he would be in a different state from me I wouldn’t have continued talking to him and built up a relationship. He told me that he wants to make it work and that he would wait for me because he loves me so much but..I don’t think I can wait for him. Whenever I think about myself being in a situation like that again I get sad. I’m twenty and in college I don’t want to spend three or four years in a long distance relationship again..It hurts because I really did liked him but I don’t want to put myself through a long distance relationship again.
Posted May 24, 2026, 2:44 AM UTC