Why do people get into interracial relationships with races they dislike?

I basically saw a post that was uploaded months ago, and it was just a vent about how her Asian mom got into a relationship with a White man who is now her dad. The amount of racial abuse she has had to endure from her White dad is driving her insane and has caused her mental health problems. It has gotten so bad that her Asian mom never even bothers to intervene, and it’s not just the daughter receiving the racial abuse because her Asian mother is also experiencing it.

And today, I saw a TikTok uploaded a day ago in which a mixed woman talked about how her Black dad regretted getting into a relationship with a White woman. She talked about how before the relationship, her dad never liked White people and had always wanted a Black family. Despite that, he still decided to get together with a White woman, and they had a child together.