Leaving a woman is not trying to control a woman

Let's say you don't want your wife to have a tattoo. You say that to her, she says, my body my choice, suck it up. You tell her you were gonna leave her if she did. She is not correct in telling you that you are being controlling. Because she doesn't have the right over your body, you can use your body to go to a lawyer to file for divorce.

Same is with sex, same is with anal sex, or any sex act you want. She can say no, the man can leave. Both parties are exercising their right.

A man can never be controlling for wanting to leave his wife because his wife has no right over his body. It similar to how he has no right over his wife's body.

So when women say that men are not entitled to the same sex acts that they did with their ex, it's not controlling when men want to leave their wives because of it. Reasons can be many, insecurities or shame or whatever. What's important is that they are allowed to leave.