My experience

I’m 14F, I went to a pretty rough elementary school where a lot of kids came from unstable or abusive homes. There was a girl in my class who was my age, and it was obvious she was dealing with abuse. She acted strangely sometimes and would get very physically clingy with me. Eventually she started crossing boundaries, touching me in ways that weren’t appropriate and asking sexual questions like “what color are your underwear.” I didn’t understand what was happening at the time. I just knew it felt wrong. My mom reported it, but the school didn’t do anything.
Now that I’m older, I keep questioning whether what happened “counts” as something serious or if I’m overreacting. It’s made me feel ashamed and confused about myself. I ended up exploring sexual stuff online when I was younger, and now I feel like that somehow makes me “gross” or morally wrong. I need advice.