Mental Health

So I have been in the AirForce for over 14 years and I am finally considering going to mental health. Now, I'm not suicidal. Have I had some fleeting thoughts? Yeah, I have. But never thought about suicide seriously. I do have some depression and anxiety issues I think, among some other personal issues. One of my anxieties about going to mental health is the fact on all of my mental health questionares and doctors appointments, I have never admitted to any of these issues. Is that going to be an issue?

I'm one of those people who struggle with emotion and opening up to people. I've gotten to a point where I feel like I need help. Not because I feel like im gonna hurt myself, but because I want to improve my relationships, especially with my wife. I don't want to look like im looking for meds or to strengthen my eventual Va rating. I dont care about any of that. I just want to improve on a personal and relationship level.