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24 [M4F] #Online - Mature, handsome, peaceful man relaxing in my bed this evening as I burn an incense stick. I'm looking to connect with a woman around my age or older who's interested in forming a genuine and long term friend with benefits type of intimate connection together.

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Hi!

I'm 24 years old, single, and living in Illinois. I'm looking for a genuine and long term intimate relationship with a woman around my age or older. I am very mature for my age. Any body type or ethnicity/POC are welcome. I'm currently relaxing and listening to an album from the late 60s and burning some sage and Palo Santo incence. It's so peaceful and romantic in here.

Physically, I'm 6 feet tall, pale skin, brown hair, wear glasses, average healthy weight with a slight tummy, veiny hands haha, and keep a neat not too long beard and mustache but usually shave it after awhile to let it grow again, handsome.

I thought I would be vulnerable for a change, put myself out there and hopefully meet someone to connect with! Finding that deep connection, emotional and sexual intimacy online isn't something I've tried very much of, but I figured someone is out there looking for connection too. I just really want to form something meaningful and intimate with someone when the time is right.

I am looking for a friend with benefits type of connection, possibly open to more too with emphesis on the friends aspect. I'm looking to form a genuine emotional connection, with also being able to connect sexually which means to tease and flirt and enjoy each other when we reach a point of feeling comfortable, which includes sharing intimate pictures when we become comfortable. It's not just about me, as the pleasure of my partner means a lot to me as well and being there for your needs. I am looking for an eventual connection that moves off of Reddit, as well. I want to learn all about you and your life and the things you enjoy as well as we become situated. I want to have a safe and healthy situation where we are open to exploring together when we feel comfortable. I love teases, soft thighs are my favorite, just an FYI... I'd like to share cute intimate pictures throughout our days, getting dressed and our outfits too. Communication is important to me and I'll always be mindful of your boundaries and feelings. I'm pretty open sexually as well. I'm really hoping for that spark, where I leave you eager to hear from me and where we message each other often when we can. I also want the friendship aspect though and not just for sexual connection. I am very loyal and honest and strive for something meaningful and real.

I am currently working full time as a facilities maintenance technician, so I love to work with my hands and I'm pretty nerdy about how stuff works. When I'm not at work, I spend most of my time either being productive or relaxing, depending on what needs to be done.

Some of my interests are photography, cooking and baking, nature walks and camping, fixing things and being handy around the home and farm, flight simulation, listening to music, candles and incense, animals, and relaxing. My favorite animal is an Owl! πŸ¦‰ I recently set up a bird feeder in my yard and it's been so awesome!! I'm getting lots of visitors including a beautiful male and female cardinal couple! 🐦 I listen to a lot of music from the present as well as the 60s, 70s, 80s, etc. there's a period of really great music from then that I really enjoy listening to, all of the great bands, well known and obscure. My favorite obscure band at the moment is called ILL Wind from 1968.

Photography is my main creative hobby, I'm all about the peaceful things in life and when I'm not outdoors, my favorite place to be is cozy in my bed with a candle burning, tea steeping, and listening to an album.

If I sound like a man that you're interested in connecting with, feel free to reach out and hopefully we will catch a vibe! 😊

Posted May 24, 2026, 2:51 AM UTC Β· locked

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