Am I incapable of making a guy finish 😭

I'm 22f, I've had sex with 5 men. My first was a messy experience, he was big, I bled, we could barely get it in so therefore we didn't get to properly penetrate and like I said it was a messy situation and I think it exhausted both of us so neither of us a finished. We had sex a second time, and he "came" quick.. BUT the kicker is, he said he was cumming, he pulled out, and I seen/felt absolutely no evidence of cum. The second guy I had sex with, said "I can't finish like this" I'm assuming it was the position we were in, but we also were in multiple other positions. In the end he ended up fingering me and masturbating himself to finish. We had sex a second time. It was the exact same deal the second time. 3rd guy I had sex with, no offence but he was SO small we couldn't get it in so he finished off himself which honestly I'm glad about because I didn't enjoy that experience anyway. 4th guy was the first time someone had actually cum from penetrating me — I seen the evidence in the condom lol. Anyway, 5th guy came inside me without protection (well he said he did anyway) and I consider myself quite new to sex and I'd never had someone cum in me before so I wasn't sure what to expect. I didn't feel it (which I know is normal) but when I went to the toilet after I kind of expected something to come out but nothing did besides my own cum. Is that normal? Am I overthinking?

I'm so confused because most of those guys have said I'm "good at what I do", and the second guy knew I was inexperienced and he was my second, but said to me "are you sure you're new to this because you're good at it" multiple times. But if I was good at it surely he could come from penetration or head?? I don't wanna toot my own horn but I genuinely do think I'm good at what I do lol and every guy I've been with instantly becomes hard as a rock and lots of precum. But again I still consider myself new to this, so idk what's normal?? Advice pleaseeee
Particularly from the men!