SUCCESS MA @FPOP - BF's POV

hi guys! good day i'm just here to share to y'all the journey of my girlfriend and me : ))

for context, kakagrad lang namin last year and we're just starting to build our individual careers but something unexpected happened, we found out na she's pregnant, actually we were really surprised kasi we've been doing raw for 2 years na and ang few ng intercourse namin nung month na nabuo si baby so ayun nagulat kami, nagpanic and our first instinct was to buy meds online, di pa namin alam yung fpop this time ha so sa tiktok seller kami bumili and unfortunately... we got scammed, 1 mife 4 miso 2 antipain at 2 blood supplement for 5500 and some crazy pre-ma procedure rituals lol kainis pag naaalala ko hahaha

nung time na yun wala na kaming hope until nagtry ako magbasa basa sa reddit at nabasa ko yung whw kaso matagal daw dun so eto na, nakita ko yung fpop hehe

so eto na po yung timeline:

nagpatvs siya and we found out na 6w 1d na siya, after that we contacted fpop w her tvs and we sent the payment... kinabahan pa nga kami kasi natagalan bago naipadeliver sa amin yung pills and nung nareceive na namin it took a week bago nasimulan yung procedure cuz of our availability

THINGS TO PREPARE:

- the fpop meds

- bonamine

- ibuprofen

- easy to eat foods (yung samin were biscuits, instant noodles, saging and egg)

- heating pad for warm compress

- menstrual pants (mga 3 piraso, 6 pcs naman laman niya)

april 18 - she took the mife

april 19

7:20 - ibuprofen

7:40 - bonamine

8:02 - 1st dose of miso (4 pcs)

nung time na ‘to wala pa talaga nararamdaman siya kaya kabado kasi baka mamaya scam nanaman or baka di magwork until uminom na siya ng water w the remaining remnants

8:51 - sumuka siya

9:01 - dumumi siya and sumuka ulit

9:34 - dito na siya dinugo

9:42 - sumuka siya ulit and grabe na yung pain na nararamdaman niya, grabe na ‘yung kaba and awa ko sa partner nung time na ‘to because nagmamakaawa na siya na tama na raw ‘yung pain and all, nakakaawa, wish ko nun sana ako na lang yung nakakaramdam nun kasi kasalanan ko naman to begin with, lumipas ang pain, on/off siya pero grabe sobrang sakit talaga makita na nasasaktan siya, she even said na 100/10 daw yung pain

11:00 - may lumabas, we both thought na eto na siya (sac) and I tried to be strong pero hindi ko rin kinaya, I broke down, iyak ako nang iyak, sorry ako nang sorry sa anak namin, nilinisan ko siya ta's kiniss ko, me and my partner comforted each other

11:01 - 2nd dose of miso (4 pcs)

11:30 - nagwater na siya w the remaining remnants

and hindi na ganun kasakit yung contractions compared sa 1st dose but continuous na ang bleeding

11:40 - may lumabas ulit (sac), upon cleaning color white/gray siya na malambot

11:50 - may lumabas ulit na blood clots

until 3pm ganun lang ang cycle, kumakain siya at pinagpapahinga ko, heating pads will help lessen the pain pero masakit pa rin siya ha, don't expect na it'll help that much pero it'll help hahaha

4pm - umuwi na siya sakanila through move it.

POST MA PROCEDURE:

1w post ma - grabe, halos everyday kaming nagaalala at nagooverthink because grabe pa rin yung bleeding, on and off and her cramps are also on and off din. men, please make sure to stay at your partner's side, they need us more than they need anyone else in this world.

2w post ma - dito kahit papano, medyo nagssubside na yung cramps pero there are still days na masakit and yung bleeding is nallessen na rin, may time pa nga na inapoy siya ng lagnat, grabe ot namin dito, akala namin something serious na but thankfully nawala siya and naging okay siya the next day. we also took our 1st pt, it still had faint line pero okay lang we were assured na success ang procedure cuz na-expel si sac eh.

3w post ma - dito spotting na lang siya, nawawala na rin yung tenderness ni breast and bloating niya. kahit papano assured na kami, we also took our 2nd pt after ma, may faint line pa rin pero halos wala na talagang line.

4w post ma - nagulat kami kasi bumalik sa bright red bleeding lanng and may lumalabas ulit na maliliit na clots, nung una naaalarma kami kasi baka bumalik or what until narealize namin na period niya na pala ‘to hahaha, grabe. 🥹

4w 5d post ma (today) - we took our 3rd pt, negative na.

men, palagi niyong tatandaan never back down kapag may unexpected na nangyare, maganda man or hindi, never leave your partner behind. man up, ika nga nila.

and to my girlfriend, soon to be wife u/KeyDot327 thank you for being the strong woman that you are, remember na I'll always keep on loving you and I'll love you even harder when times go hard. mahal na mahal kita.

maraming salamat din po sa mga nabasa ko rito and kay ate u/Separate-Camp5545 na super helpful sa mga tao here.

and to our baby a.v, nak nakailang sorry na kami sa'yo ha pero sana, sana mapatawad mo kami ni mommy ha, hindi pa namin kaya nak sa ngayon, balik ka sa amin nak ha, mahal na mahal ka namin ni mommy mo.