I’ve found people are so quick to “accuse” XXS women of having an ED

Just wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences. I was once casually talking about how I like the meal replacement smoothies at my work, and my “friend” was very quick to look me up and down and go, “oh… do you have an eating disorder? Cuz that’s like not ok.”

It’s just frustrating because no, protein smoothies exist and people talk about them all the time, but the moment a skinny person does they have an eating disorder??? I dunno I’m not friends with them anymore but I still think about it because I’ve never felt so embarrassed to be built the way I am than in that moment.