31 [M4F] #Oakland - looking for a hot nerdy girl for an FWB

really looking for someone who really wants to hang out and be friends getting to know each other, while we can also fuck each other senseless and even have some kinky fun together. I'm a chef so you may even get to sample my cooking if you play your cards right. while I'm looking for a fwb I will be completely transparent I'm in a ENM relationship and she very much encourages me to find a partner for myself or one thats willing to join both of us if you're bi and interested.

about me- im a 5'10 black man kind stocky build but we're in the gym looking to get to a more muscular build well kept beard I like to play games and watch movies but also like to going out for good food and getting drinks also long walks in nature are great.

im willing to send pics of you're interested hmu