Wife got pregnant 2 months after my vasectomy how do I confront her?

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My wife (mother of our two young kids) recently told me she's pregnant and seems really happy about it.

The problem is,I had a vasectomy exactly two months before she conceived.I haven't had my post-vasectomy semen analysis yet,but the timing makes it impossible for this to be mine.I strongly suspect she got pregnant by someone else.I'm devastated and angry.How do I break this news to her and confront her about the pregnancy? Should I wait until I get my semen test results first? Any advice on how to handle this conversation,especially with two kids involved?Looking for practical steps from people who’ve been through something similar.

Posted May 24, 2026, 2:57 AM UTC · locked

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