humbling me or likes me?
Very messy situation😠but Guy A & Guy B happened to “both like me “ both childhood friends I weighted out my pros and cons with both guys. Con, Guy A had few situations so I knew no matter what It would never feel right but I was physically attractive to him. He is very charismatic and charming and Guy B I wasn’t really that into him but he was nice but since I figure he liked me why not give him a chance so I did. Our relationship lasted for 8 months then he completely ghosted me on my birthday. He felt like he was never good enough for me because he’s very insecure financially. Anyways after he ghosted me I chased him about 2x times he ignored me then after that I haven’t spoken to him for 6 months I blocked him everywhere but I happened to see guy A everywhere I sometimes feel like guy A. still likes me, but I don’t know because he talks the other girls as well and I always felt like the difference between guy A. and guy B is guy A. always felt like it was gonna be like a transactional situation but I was since me and guy have not talking to me a guy A. have been getting closer in terms of like just talking like this one time we talked about why we didn’t work and I told him how like it’s cause he would talk to other girls and he would tell me that the reason he didn’t pursue me is because he didn’t really wanna hurt me whatever and then just today he says to me like oh guy the relationship was not even it was more terms of sex and stuff like that which hurting my feelings, but do you think this guy is just saying stuff like that to get under my skin or to be hurtful because I didn’t choose him or he likes me and doesn’t know how to handle that I choose someone else?
Posted May 24, 2026, 2:57 AM UTC