60 [M4F] #Chicago/NW Suburbs – Anonymous lonely man’s post #4895887.  (Cue up that sad song by Sarah McLachlan)

Who am I kidding.  It’s gonna happen or it’s not gonna happen.  So I’m not going to spend a lot of time channeling my inner Ernest Hemingway spouting paragraph after paragraph of flowery verse that may achieve an A+ from a creative writing teacher and leave you totally impressed with my writing abilities …BUT…totally unimpressed as a potential affair partner. 

After all, looking at the tsunami of postings here from lonely men….I’d say I have …well, a tsunami of competitors here.  Ah, the life of a man.   And being honest, plenty of those competitors here are younger than me, have more free time to play, and/or maybe better looking.  But I don’t care.  All it takes is one AP.  And I’ve found them before.  Hence my post.  Anonymous lonely man’s post #4895887.

So as you read these posts, including mine, please imagine Sarah McLachlan’s Angel playing in the background.  But instead of the sad, suffering dogs and puppies, imagine sad, suffering men.

Of which I am one.

So I’ll cut to the chase here (and maybe get an “F” from my creative writing teacher) and let you know something about me and what I’m looking for.

First of all…I’m not really sad…nor suffering.  That was just to get your attention.  Conversely, I’ve had a nice life so far…and have a positive demeanor and reasonably positive outlook.  (Which, considering the state of the world these days, is an accomplishment but I digress…)

6’ tall, fit, maybe a bit gangly, maybe handsome (In an older guy type of way), sense of humor, friendly, guy next door personality.  Have most of my hair, man bun, nice smile, business type.  Interests are gardening, pets, business & economics, investing, spectator sports, live music (rock, pop, country), art/music festivals, gym & fitness.

Looking for someone I can develop something ongoing with, on a FWB basis, as I most definitely am not “changing my situation,”  to use a cliché .    And at my age, not interested in quick hits.  (Of course as a guy, who am I kidding 😄 but that’s not my preferred objective here.)   I seek a meetup based relationship, weekdays only.  A personal connection with good conversation, exchanging stories and experiences, and laughs is preferred.  I genuinely take an interest in others and their lives and it's a definite bonus if that “other” is someone I’m attracted to and is laying naked beside me.  Good messaging availability if that’s what you prefer.  If interested we can chat for awhile to get acquainted. 

You?  To be honest, with the vast ratio of men to women here, I’ll take what I can get.  You just need to be a woman.  Haha just kidding.  Almost.  🤣🤣  What I envision is someone who cares about people, someone with a sense of humor and doesn’t take life, or herself too seriously.  Cuz I certainly don’t.  A good conversationalist, someone who can joke around and tell stories would be great.   And someone who doesn’t want to um, “change her situation.”  Geographically, NW burbs.   And looking to meet physically; online just doesn’t do it for me. 

So if you happen to be interested, message me!  If you aren’t interested, no problems, wouldn’t be the first time.  If that’s the case, good luck and scroll on!