40 [M4F] #Online - The mental aspects of submission.

My favorite part of a dom/sub relationship is the mental aspect, and I'm looking for a sub that would be interested in building a dynamic that emphasize that. My hope is that you're the type of sub who craves the feeling of submission, not just because it leads to kinky exciting tasks (it does), but because the feeling of being subservient to somebody turns you on more than anything.

Rather than being vague, I'll list some of the kinks I'd like to incorporate, and why I enjoy them in the context of this type of mental dynamic.

• Orgasm control (e.g. joi, edging, denial, forced) - Relinquishing control of such an intimate and primal urge is a clear act of submission, and I love making a sub feel clingy, dependent, and needy.
• Rules / Restrictions (e.g. daily rituals, what you can wear or how you can behave while at home) - Even when rules are simple or innocuous, having to follow rules that somebody else gives you enforces the power differential, and can be a steady reminder of your obedience.
• Humiliation (e.g. embarrassing tasks) - Making a sub feel vulnerable and exposed is one of my favorites, and when a sub sets aside her pride to please me, I'll always praise her and tell her I'm proud of her.
• Degradation (e.g. objectification) - When a sub is willing to submit to being used and treated as an object for her dom's enjoyment, comfort, or pleasure, it can be very intimate and subservient.
• Desperation / Begging (e.g. asking permission to cum, bladder control) - Getting a sub so desperate for release that she'll genuinely beg for it is a sign I have your mind right where I want it.
• And a variety of other things, like bondage, pet play (for the humiliation aspect), tedious/boring tasks (following these sorts of orders truly shows obedience), light pain (hurting yourself for a dom's enjoyment is again very subservient), and so one.

I'm 39m from the US EST, white, 5'9 160lbs, short brown hair, brown eyes, short beard, body hair (groomed), single, monogamous, politically left. Happy to share a pic to verify. I have my life together and really don't have any baggage. I enjoy being outside, gardening, cooking, diy type things, not a big gamer (though I do play casually), traveling.

You're a cis-female 18+, open to any race or location (though the closer you are in time the logistically easier things can be). It's especially fun when you're a competent, respectable person in your everyday life who craves this feeling of being subservient in private.

While I ultimately prefer longterm, I'm envisioning this would start fairly casual with the potential to become more if we're both wanting that. But I recognize this is reddit, and we could be anywhere in the world, so I'm pretty open-minded as to how it could evolve. I'm not a lifestyle bdsm 24/7 type person, and prefer to be equals outside of the dynamic, so hopefully we'll enjoy talking beyond just the kinky stuff.

Anyway, I guess this is long enough. If this sort of dynamic sounds like something that might appeal to you, send me a chat or message with a little bit about yourself and we can take it from there.