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AIO: my bf picked up another girl drunk.

Quick background information I(19F) have been with my bf(20M) for 8 months. He is so wonderful and has never done anything wrong. He has a friend, ”A”, and she has always rubbed me the wrong way. She is very male centered. Every time my bf tells me about her it has to do with her acting a fool over a guy. She cuts his hair which already pisses me off but I let it slide cause she has been practicing cosmetology and does him right. I have never met her before but I’m already suspicious of her. All I’ve heard about is how “A” is into three guys at the same time and all the drama surrounding her male relationships. So am I wrong to assume she is most likely into him?

Now fast forward to today, my bf tells me that last night he picked her up from going out because she was drunk and needed a ride. I know he’s not cheating but he’s so oblivious to every thing it makes me mad. “A” has a history of driving home drunk so I know he is trying to do the right thing and help her, but couldn’t she uber? I expressed how I don’t like her and he told me that “if you met her you would get it i think” and “he just feels bad for her”.

That made it worse for me. Why are you defending her? I get she’s your friend, but at least acknowledge how I feel. I don’t like to say things because he treats me so well. I go out a lot with my friends in “revealing outfits” and out of all my friends he is the only boyfriend that doesn’t say anything and just compliments me. He lets me do my own things even if he doesn’t like it so I feel like me saying something about him isn’t right.

I don’t know guys, AIO???

Posted May 24, 2026, 3:37 PM UTC

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