I think my crush also likes me back or maybe I'm just delusional

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Incident 1 -

during freshers, our dance got cancelled. It was a group couple dance, and he was my partner :") . So I overheard him talking to his friend, saying they shouldn’t have cancelled it because I was practicing so hard for it. And he also wanted to dance with me ( mind you he is veryyy shy guy I somehow convinced him to perform with me)

Incident 2 -

during our college trip, I was crying on the bus because of my ex-best friend. He came to me while sitting with her and asked why I was crying. I told him the whole story, and without me even asking, he reassured me that he was only sitting with her because they had a mutual friend and she wanted to know about her. He specifically said it had nothing to do with me and that I shouldn’t doubt him. I was honestly confused that day because why was he explaining all this to me on his own?

Incident 3

So, he and I are from the same friend circle, right? We all were doing internships at the same place, and we used to eat lunch together every day. But since my friend and I started earlier, our internships ended before his. Later in college, he said that they were missing my friend’s lunch. I misunderstood and thought he meant he missed my lunch too, so I jokingly said, “Oh, so you miss us only for the food" Then he replied, “I said her, not you.” So I gave him a deadly side eye :"). After that, he quickly said, “I didn’t mean it like that. I was also missing the shahi paneer you made.”

Incident 4

So yesterday night, we were talking over text and studying together, discussing our exams and syllabus. Then the conversation shifted to casual banter about marriage, love, etc. So, I asked him what his type is, and he replied, “Why would I tell you this? And what will you do with this information?” to which I jokingly replied, “If you don’t want to tell me, it’s okay. Atleast Don’t be rude to me,” and sent a sobbing cat sticker saying, “Why are you texting me in that tone?” He immediately replied that he wasn’t being rude and that it’s hard to understand tone over text. Then he said he thought I’d get bored if he started talking about all this. I told him it’s not like that, and then he told me his type.

what do y’all think? Is he just a genuinely nice guy who is kind and cares for everyone, or does he actually like me????????? Or I'm just delusional and I'm reading too much between the line?????

Posted May 26, 2026, 4:57 PM UTC

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