‘Friends’ continue to let us down

My wife and I, both 24, seem to continually be let down by our friends. We plan things to try and get people together and they call and cancel last minute or after the event has already started.

Do we both just need better friends? Or is this just how it is today? Seems like everyone is always looking for an excuse out. Maybe we are the problem but our friends seem to love and support us.

We have also talked about how there is this transition from high school friendships to adult friendships and how adult friendships seem a lot more reciprocal.