For all the girls at BITS Pilani and BITS Hyd

Hello, please help a fellow girl out. I am planning on going to BITS for BPharm but have heard a lot of horror stories about sexism and girls restrictions increasing

1. I have heard disgusting things about gate checking so what is that like for both campuses and curfew experiences as well. Plus do you need permission from parents every time you go out of campus?
2. I havent had a lot of fun stupid teenage experiences so will i get to do that at either campus? How often do you get to go out with exams and restrictions and do you get to feel like a teenager
3. How is the social life? Is it easy to make friends and participate in fests and clubs bec i am very scared to do that.
4. Is the guy population decent and respectful or are they incel-like? Plus what is the dating life like
5. Academically and socially both, which is better for BPharm, hyd or Pilani?