33[TF4F/NB] Raleigh, NC - Looking for Serious Partner

Hello hello, this is going to be a long post so sorry in advance

Lets get these "dealbreakers" over first

- ABSOLUTELY NO MEN. Like I will block you... I have deep trauma with men, you will *not* convince me otherwise

- Trans lives matter

- ACAB

- Free Palestine

- F*ck DJT and anyone that has ever voted for him.

- I prefer 🍃 over 🍺 but do occasionally drink, like only once in a ... Blue Moon 🥁 ba-dum tss 🤣😅

- I have tattoos and will be getting more

I am poly and have one NP, she will not be involved, though I would want y'all to meet and us all hang out occasionally. We live in NC and have an adorable little black kitty named Freyja 🐈‍⬛

I'm a computer engineer for my job, though this AI shit has driven me to want out of tech. I am a huge nerd and gamer, mainly play cozy games now but also casually play fallout 76 and ffxiv; borderlands is my favorite series (BL4 is such a disappointment 😔)

In the process of getting an official ADHD/autism diagnosis, strangely enough to try and fix some chronic stomach issues. That also means i have a ton of hobbies I like to jump around on. In your message please tell me your favorite hobby (or if you're like me: your current favorite hobby) and an appropriate emoji so I know you read this

Because I'm kinda a boss bitch in my job, I tend to be a sub leaning switch, like 70/30 split lean. Fair amount of kink we can get into if we get to that point.

I'm sure theres more I'm forgetting so feel free to ask questions. Seriously. Thats how I gauge interest. If you don't ask me things, I assume you're not interested and I'm just bugging you