Third Year at UCSD, Owner of UC Minecraft, and Honestly I Feel Lost

Hi everyone, I’m drunk asf right now and my chest hurts really bad, but honestly I’ve just been going through a lot. I’ve been carrying this pain since I was a kid. Back home, a lot of my friends got involved in gangs, and I’ve lost so many people over the years. It hurts knowing I can’t really help them, especially being at a university 8 hours away from home.

I haven’t cried for years because I kept thinking everything was going to be fine, but honestly nothing feels fine anymore. I’ve been holding so much pain in for so long and it’s all starting to hit me at once.

Even after trying therapy, I still don’t feel happy. As an Asian Indian American, sometimes I feel stuck mentally and emotionally. Even though being at UCSD has been nice, honestly sometimes I feel like I don’t even deserve this spot.

I know a lot of people are probably gonna say to call CAPS, but honestly I don’t even know at this point. I’ve just been drinking to numb the pain and laughing everything off even though I’m hurting inside.

I remember when I first got into UCSD, I had a friend who died from gang violence. Then when I became a second year, I lost another friend to gang violence too. I still remember how we used to play soccer together as kids, and now he’s gone.

By my third year, I had another friend who committed suicide. Back in high school, I also had a friend who died at school. Honestly, after all of this, I feel like I’ve been carrying pain for years.

I had a friend who got locked up for murder and another friend who passed away. We used to play soccer together since kindergarten. Tbh, I’ve lost count of how many people I’ve lost or seen go to jail at this point.

All I know is I’m just sitting here laughing at myself while being in pain. As a 3rd year, I really wish life was good, but honestly it hasn’t been. And no, I’m not going to hurt myself, I know better than that.

A lot of people are probably gonna say everything will be alright, but honestly I don’t know anymore. Maybe I just have to wait and hope things get better. Maybe I’ve just been blind to it this whole time.

I feel lost too, especially as someone who’s been through and around gang violence for so long. But honestly, for people who’ve gone through the same experiences as me, I just hope you become a better person than I was. I’ve done a lot of things I’m not proud of, but I’m still trying to be a good person.

Sorry if reading this made anyone sad or ruined your day. I just needed to let everything out because I’ve been holding this in for a long time.