40 [M4F] #Scotland / #UK looking to build a family together

Hello! I turned 40 recently and am based in central Scotland. 173cm (5'8"), facial hair optional, mono. Starting by getting to know each other, I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who wants children (when you're ready). Marriage is optional - it's the bond we share that matters. 

A bit of a slightly late bloomer, I have spent years shaping who I am today. It's only the last few years when I've been comfortable with who I am. I have a stable career with my own home, debt-free. I am East Asian but I don't conform to particular cultural values, e.g. if things work out between us, I expect us to share household duties and childcare equally (I don't have to work full-time).

I am a believer in self-improvement. Not trying to be somebody else, but a better version of myself. My build is average / healthy.

Friends and previous dates have said I am funny. The truth is, I just like to see your smile. So I'll probably say "I am funny once you get to know me".

My main hobby is Lindy Hop. Single life has led me to fill my calendar up with Lindy-related activities across the UK and Europe, which I'd happily swap in a heartbeat for couple activities. I also like country walks, castles, galleries, historical sites, trying new things, and the little moments in everyday life.

In my 20s, I was with a serial cheater for nearly 8 years. Since parting ways, I have been on a journey to find my person.

I am looking for a woman with some idea of what she wants in life. My only bottom line is that you are also looking for a serious relationship and that (when you're ready) you want your own children.

It's easy for me to say I am kind, supportive, caring, a good listener, and will treat you with love and respect, but will you give me the opportunity to prove it to you? I prefer calls over text, but understand this can take time.

Happy to swap (family friendly) selfies in DMs.

[If you’re interested in getting to know each other, please include your age, height, location, and some of your life goals. Let's see where we go from there? :) ]

Here's a pic of me from earlier this year:
https://files.catbox.moe/hda2ql.png