43 [M4F] #Online - Single Guy Looking for a Flirty Friend
Summary:
I know many people won't read something this long, so here is a short summary: Single guy looking to connect with a single woman (35 or older) to develop an online fun and flirty situation. I’m child free by choice, liberal, and not religious.
Not looking to fall in love. Just looking to meet someone in a similar situation to me who wants to develop a fun connection for however long it lasts, which will hopefully be longer than a few days at least.
Long Version:
I had a relationship end in 2023. Got back on the apps after a while but it only confirmed that I'm not excited about finding another relationship right now. I like my routines and solitude too much, and I'm admittedly not great at changing those things for someone else.
However, I'm still human, and I miss having someone to chat with during the day, as well as be playful, flirty, and sexual with, and I would like to find that here if possible.
More About Me:
- Good mix of serious and playful
- Extremely flirty but not rude or pushy
- Very dry and dark sense of humor
- Usually replies quickly
- Quiet personality but I know how to keep a conversation going, and I ask a lot of questions
- Can talk about almost anything. I know a little about a lot, and a lot about a little
- Deal with depression but it's very well managed
- My interests are language learning, teaching, psychology and self-improvement, video games, exercise, crossword puzzles, reading, travel, and the usual movies / music / tv
What I Look Like:
I'm 5'7'', average build, average looks, hazel green eyes, salt and pepper beard, glasses. Happy to trade pics early. I'm mature and won't react badly if I'm not your type, hopefully you won't either if you're not my type.
Things I would love to find (doesn't have to be literally every one)
- In or near US Central Time, or at least your waking hours are aligned to US Central Time.
- 33-55 years old
- Enjoys texting throughout the day, and has availability to do so, but also understands people get busy sometimes
- Open to playful, flirty, and sexual messages if the vibe is good. I like a mix of the two and switching back and forth
- Early riser
- Enjoys teasing and roasting each other in a playful way. The more sarcasm the better
This is a big ask I know. Most people in my age range are looking for something with a lot more substance and something that can lead to a good in-person relationship. I'm just not in that place right now, and figure there must be a couple people who feel the same.
Posted May 28, 2026, 5:06 PM UTC