This guy I was interested in is a total nerd
So I started talking to this guy on Reddit and we exchanged Instas pretty quickly. He was sooo funny and chalant, I genuinely enjoyed his vibe. But the situationship lasted like 2 days.
He had an exam coming up, so he locked in hard and our chats became dry af. And the way I threw away all my self-respect texting first and sending reels like HELLO šš
But the worst part is that he told me heās super into studying to the point that he doesnāt really have time for relationships. Apparently he even broke up with his exes because they āhampered his road to success.ā Our latest text was literally him gently shooing me away to study because he needed to study too šš
Donāt get me wrong ā being goal-oriented and studious is genuinely very cool and I totally respect that. But to the point where you can barely spare time for people? That starts feeling concerning. Iāve lowkey lost interest in this chopped funny nerd cutie, but it still hurts gng.
any inputs on this??
Posted May 28, 2026, 5:09 PM UTC