This guy I was interested in is a total nerd

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So I started talking to this guy on Reddit and we exchanged Instas pretty quickly. He was sooo funny and chalant, I genuinely enjoyed his vibe. But the situationship lasted like 2 days.

He had an exam coming up, so he locked in hard and our chats became dry af. And the way I threw away all my self-respect texting first and sending reels like HELLO šŸ˜­šŸ™

But the worst part is that he told me he’s super into studying to the point that he doesn’t really have time for relationships. Apparently he even broke up with his exes because they ā€œhampered his road to success.ā€ Our latest text was literally him gently shooing me away to study because he needed to study too 😭😭

Don’t get me wrong — being goal-oriented and studious is genuinely very cool and I totally respect that. But to the point where you can barely spare time for people? That starts feeling concerning. I’ve lowkey lost interest in this chopped funny nerd cutie, but it still hurts gng.

any inputs on this??

Posted May 28, 2026, 5:09 PM UTC

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