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Making him feel confident and sexy in bed

Hes on the bigger side, 6' tall and around 375lbs.

I am smol... im about 5' tall and 120lbs.

Sex with him is AMAZING. love every moment of it. Love his body, love how he handles me, everything is wonderful.

I have noticed small shifts in himself, getting frustrated, or even potentially some slight embarrassment? While we have sex if we are doing soemthing where his size requires we make some accommodations.

Again, I am so happy with him and happy to accommodate him however is best for him.

The issue is, it seems like when these moments occur, they seem to dim his light a bit.

I think whats happening is hes getting pulled into his head and feeling self conscious or upset with himself because of his body and the need to have accommodations for it.

But these moments are only bothering him, for me we readujst and get back to it it without a first or second thought , how can I get him to feel more comfortable and on the same wavelength when these moments happen. I enjoy being slow and intentional so having to take a moment to reset or change angles isn't something I would ever feel some type of way about. I understand being angry with your own body for it getting in the way. But how can I help him feel grounded and keep him in the moment even if things get awkward for him in that sense?

And also if anyone has any advice on positions that are good for bigger guys that i could try, maybe that would help boost his confidence.

Hes so incredibly sexy to me. I love his body exactly how it is right now, and I just want him to be able to feel that and take comfort in it when hes feeling badly about himself.

Posted May 28, 2026, 5:10 PM UTC

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