[M4F] It's not cheating if....

I love stories that explore the mix of anxiety and jealousy of knowing that your partner has other love interests. I'm not talking about actual cheating, but those gray areas where you're not quite sure where the boundary is.

Maybe we're an established couple that has some special rules for dating outside the relationship. Or maybe we're in that early stage where we're not offically datingn. Either way, there's something so arousing about knowing that your partner is so popular and irresistible, you can't possibly expect them to stay monogamous.

A few possible ideas:

• It's not cheating, we're not even official yet
• It's not cheating if your ex is in town
• It's not cheating if it's your work crush
• It's not cheating if you're on a business trip
• It's not cheating if you just make out a little
• It's not cheating if it's for money/work
• It's not cheating if we're long distance
• It's not cheating if you tell me everything

So if you'd like to start a chat exploring these themes, let me know and let's start writing!

Stuff I like I think the biggest one for me is having the sex parts feel elegant and sensual, instead of just dirty. Think "artsy French erotic film" instead of "porn scene." Otherwise, I like vanilla sex, gentle femdom, romance, seduction, and exquisite descriptions of clothing/lingerie. For body types, I tend to prefer dark hair and slender bodies over curvy, but I'm less picky for that.

Dislikes the usual stuff, like bathroom things, feet, excessively messy sex, deliberate shame/humiliation, and anything mean. Also not a fan of giant butts/boobs/dicks. Racial differences are fine but I'm not into the BBC trope.