Why do a lot of our Mothers genuinely hate us?

I genuinely believe that if any of us stopped with the cash and gifts we give our parents, most of them wouldn’t talk to us again. African parenting is sometimes based off of how much money they can get off of you. Thats when youre a good child or obedient. Sick and tired. I would never treat my kids this way, but that also means I have the burden of keeping my parents happy and also making sure my kids have the best life.